On Our Way Home, The Long Way…
(Pics at bottom of post...)
When we were getting ready to leave Zambia for Edina almost
7 years ago, I suggested to Molly, only half joking, “Let’s Sail Home!” Beyond
the great experience this would have been, it was driven in part by the intuitive
sense that getting on an airplane in Africa and less than 24 hrs later being in
Edina is just too big of a jump.
Alexandra Fuller, a now American who grew up in Southern Africa, writes…
“It
should not be possible to get from (Kenya
to Edina) in less than (1 day),
because mentally and emotionally it is impossible. The shock is too much, the
contrast too raw. We should sail or swim or walk from Africa, letting bits of
her drop out of us, and gradually, in this way, assimilate the excesses and
liberties of the States in tiny, incremental sips....” Scribbling
the Cat - Page 72
My almost-always-game wife did not go for boarding a boat in
Angola and making our way north across the Atlantic and we did make the miraculous
jump home in a day.
I remember well the couple weeks it took to adjust to
driving being a passive activity rather than a fully engaged activity that
requires nerves of steel, to the abundance of choices that came at us every
day, to the general order and rule following that we Minnesotans embrace,
taking on the general busyness that we so pride ourselves on and a hundred
other differences.
2 weeks from today we will make that jump again, but after
only 3 months here and living in a modern city (Nairobi) the shock will not be
quite as great. But still, as I sit in
the tropical jungle that is our backyard today, it is amazing to me that we
will make that jump again.
On a personal level, perhaps the greatest gift of our time
here has been our stay at Amani Gardens.
When not traveling this has been our home. While a simple, but beautiful place, the
experience has been made, as it always is, by the people here. The staff have been our friends and family
and, while coming from very different places, we have found much common ground
– Robert, Frank, Lucy, Newton, Rosy, Donald (or “D’Trumps” as Bennett calls him) and many more have been faithful and fun
friends. (There is a pic below of note Molly wrote to one of the staff that captures some the strong sentiments that developed in a short time.) In addition to the Kenyan
staff, the Erickson family that manages the property and who happen to be from
Minnesota, have been another unexpected treasure. Clara and Bennett and their four kids could
always be found messing around starting at 4:00 teatime and spilling into dinner and often the night. All of this was an unexpected gift.
Since our last blog we have had a few memorable
adventures. A couple weeks ago I had
meetings scheduled in Arusha, Tanzania that coincided with a visit from our
college friend Mo Hislop. Wanting her to see
the real Africa, we rented a Land Rover with a tent on top and set out on what
in the end turned out to be a 4 day, 2 country, epic road trip where we tasted
some of both heaven and hell.
On the “Hell” side of the ledger, specifically tasting:
1) Thinking it was a cool sip of water, I took a deep drink of…..Kerosene. Now, this would be bad happening in your driveway at home. It was REALLY bad happening on nameless, muddy road somewhere between Mt. Meru and Mt. Kilimanjaro. I’ll spare all the details, but we made it to a hospital in Moshi, I was fine, but miserable the rest of the day/night, and no long term damage done.
2) On our last day, within reach of Nairobi, our 1982 Rover breaks down due to a way too big of bump I hit going way too fast. We made it back to a small town and in true Africa fashion, our car was parted out and fixed all over the city, and then put back together.
3) Once we were back on the road we found ourselves on one of the worst stretches of road in all of Africa – The Mombassa Highway – in the rain. I’d always known it was bad but since we would only be on it for a little more than an hour I figured it was ok and worth saving the extra 2 or 3 hours another route would have taken. I was wrong. It was the most harrowing 1.5 hours of driving I think any of us have ever experienced. We witnessed unnecessary accidents/near accidents the whole way.
1) Thinking it was a cool sip of water, I took a deep drink of…..Kerosene. Now, this would be bad happening in your driveway at home. It was REALLY bad happening on nameless, muddy road somewhere between Mt. Meru and Mt. Kilimanjaro. I’ll spare all the details, but we made it to a hospital in Moshi, I was fine, but miserable the rest of the day/night, and no long term damage done.
2) On our last day, within reach of Nairobi, our 1982 Rover breaks down due to a way too big of bump I hit going way too fast. We made it back to a small town and in true Africa fashion, our car was parted out and fixed all over the city, and then put back together.
3) Once we were back on the road we found ourselves on one of the worst stretches of road in all of Africa – The Mombassa Highway – in the rain. I’d always known it was bad but since we would only be on it for a little more than an hour I figured it was ok and worth saving the extra 2 or 3 hours another route would have taken. I was wrong. It was the most harrowing 1.5 hours of driving I think any of us have ever experienced. We witnessed unnecessary accidents/near accidents the whole way.
What made all these experiences that much more harrowing was
that they all happened against the back-drop of the Garrissa attacks that had
occurred the day we left Nairobi. 147
students were killed by Al Shabab terrorist – it was a sad, sad reminder of the
crazy world in which all of us live and how quickly things anywhere, but
particularly here, can go wrong.
We did get back safely with some lessons learned and, as
mentioned, experienced some “Heaven” as well, namely.
1) Watching
Kilimanjaro (18,000 feet tall) break out of the clouds on Easter morning
2) NOT
dying or getting really sick from drinking Kerosene.
3) An
evening and morning of thousands of animals in Amboseli National Park and an
amazing, unexpected Easter brunch at a lodge.
4) While
stranded and waiting for our car repairs, watching Clara and Bennett gather up half
a dozen local kids and all of us reading the Easter story together.
5) The
bond that comes from having done something that, like in any good story that
has moments of tension and you don’t know how parts are going to end, but that
in the end turns out ok.
(A big shout out to Mo for coming over, trusting us, and for
smiling and laughing (almost) the whole way.)
We are leaving Kenya tomorrow morning and will spend our
last two weeks in Malawi and Zambia visiting our clients and staff in these
countries. After the busyness and terror
attack induced tension of Nairobi, this feels like a great ending to what on
the whole has been a very memorable 3+ months.
On the work front I am leaving incredibly encouraged by what
we are doing and have a much clearer vision for what the next chapter of PFS
should look like. I am excited to get
back with my team in Minnesota and continue to find ways to help reinvent Africa’s
food future.
For those who wonder, “What exactly does Partners in Food
Solutions do?” We had an excellent story that ran last Sunday in the StarTribune. It does a good job painting
a picture of how and why we are connecting the expertise from leading food
companies to Africa based food companies.
We look forward to our return home and seeing you soon.
The Dykstra Family.